I have backlogged so many tidbits from the world of comic books I had planned
to share with you in this month, but I'm afraid it'll all have to wait. You see,
on Thursday Morning, February 7th, my Mother-In-Law passed away.
As I noted in this space two months ago, she had been suffering the physical and
mental decline that Altzheimers Disease brings. Looking back on more than a decade,
my wife, Karen, can trace the timeline when her mother was beginning to show subtle
signs of this progressive disease. Karen is pretty sharp. One of the sharpest
people I know. The way some marry into money, I married into intelligence for
things beyond comics. And as they say, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Taluna was also an extremely sharp individual. Margaret
Taluna Woodward, known to most as simply Taluna, was a working woman before it
became commonplace, waiting until the ripe old age of thirty-eight to marry, which
was almost unheard of in her day. In the meantime, she worked a variety of trades,
from an office worker for Ford Motor Company to an executive secretary of a bank.
Two years into her marriage to Robert McMullen, they had thier first child, Karen
and their second, Sheri. Girls have always been prominent in the McMullen clan.
Later, Karen would work at the same bank as her mother, who'd always kept her
checkbook balanced. Once, there was an accounting error that caused Karen to bounce
her first check, but it was quickly corrected, much to Karen's relief, as Taluna
taught her how to always know where your money is, and would've come down on Karen
like a ton of bricks! This was back when a little healthy dose of fear of your
parents was not neccesarily a bad motivator. Taluna
is an unusual name, and often her name would be misstated as "Talula",
due to the fame of Talula Bankhead. I never saw her get annoyed despite the commonality
of this confusion. Ever self-effacing, Taluna would always politely correct someone
who said her name wrong, and make a joke to assure others that she didn't offend
easily. In other words, she was classy. It's hard for
me to keep referring to her by her actual name, as she became known to me solely
as Nana, a name she acquired once the grandchildren made the scene, predating
this crazy Yankee's courtship with her first-born daughter. If you've ever seen
Steel Magnolias, you can get a sense of the fun, fellowship and kindness I was
privileged to experience with Nana. I tend to be chock-full
of cynicism, but one of the more positive things I can cling to in life is that
my In-Laws have been the best I would ever hope for. If I could've pushed a button
to special-order what kind of family I would marry into, I couldn't have done
better. Another positive aspect of this extended family was the fondness my parents
had with them. There was never a "Us vs. Them" attitude from my folks
or Karen's (that many married couples suffer through), and the times we'd all
be together were some of the warmest moments of my adult life.
From day one, I've been treated as one of the family, and Nana was always a delight
to spend time with. Nana loved to laugh and enjoy life's simplest pleasures. She'd
traveled to many of the continental United States and Europe, which informed her
worldly opinions. She was a voracious reader, and would do puzzles while watching
Atlanta Braves Baseball, cheering loudly during the Braves amazing dynasty of
the 1990's. As for my 'professional family', I'd like
to thank Editors Ben Abernathy & Eddie Berganza for allowing me to adjust
my schedule so I could be at my wife's side in Georgia. A lot of times, deadlines
can be unforgiving, and old school editors used to not be so sensitive to a freelancer
actually needing time off to cope with real-life tragedies. I know some older
artists who had to work during honeymoons and other important occasions, for fear
of losing work in the future. Fortunately, I'm in a rare position that I can choose
to work only with editors I actually like on a personal level. Ben & Eddie,
as well as Assitant editor Adam Schlagman and Gen13 penciller Carlo Barberi expresssed
profound sympathy for Karen and I during this time of great sadness. Thanks again,
guys, for your collective patience and understanding.
Nana's passing was the first parental loss for both Karen and I. I no longer need
to guess how grown children endure through such loss. I can't honestly say we're
more prepared for such an event in the future, but we all did the best we could
to honor the wonderful woman that was Nana. |